1. Bury a time capsule together with trinkets and love letters to each other. Draw a map with an X marking the spot. Store the map in your safety deposit box or in another safe place. Dig it up in 10 or 20 years.
2. Create a music disk of love songs, fun songs or songs that remind you of each other.
3. Plant a note or two in a book your love is reading. Write "I love you," I want you," or "XOXOXO."
4. Go to a photo booth at the mall together. Fool around while having your photo taken. Keep the photos in your car or at work for when you need a fun pick-me-up.
5. Plant a tree together and talk about how you will carve your names in it with a heart in 20 years.
6. Go to a coffee shop - just to sit together and talk. Or get coffee to go - go for a long scenic drive together.
7. Be naughty, play hooky together. Do whatever you want together.
8. Send your love at letter at work. Disguise it in a business envelope. Make it happy for a pick me up, loving for romance and naughty if you're planning a date that evening.
9. Heart shaped sticky notes - use one at a time or 20 at once. Plant little messages throughout the house or garage to add a thrill.
10. Pick up some dipping chocolate and strawberries or cherries at your local grocery store. This makes an incredibly romantic dessert.
11. Drive for an hour or two just to have a picnic or stop at a restaurant you've never been at.
12. Name a star together. When you're apart you can look up at your star and know someone is out there waiting for your safe return.
13. Use glow in the dark stars and a black light to create a romantic night sky inside.
14. Create a spa atmosphere at home. Candles, essential oils and burners, mood music and massagers or other relaxation products can be purchased at almost any department store or bath shop.
15. Godiva, the fine chocolate maker, has developed wonderfully tasting chocolate liquor. Use wine glasses to serve it for dessert.
16. On a special night, dim the lights and put on soft music. Then, undress leaving a trail of your clothes from the front door to the bedroom; just before your love is about to arrive home.
17. Sit by the fire together roasting marshmallows or drinking wine.
18. While your love is taking a shower, sneak in and write, "I love you!" on the steamed mirror.
19. Make a puzzle of a love letter or brochure for a surprise getaway. Send a piece to your love everyday until it's complete. Or leave a piece on the table or dresser everyday.
20. Make a tape recording asking your love to meet you somewhere or tell them how much they are loved.
21. Next time you're walking anywhere, grab your love's hand or walk arm and arm.
22. Make a "Prescription for Love" on the computer. Fill it out using words like: take two doses of love and come see me now or take with kisses twice daily. Use an empty medication bottle without the label, inside you can fill with heart candies or erotic messages.
23. Gather up all your old photos from the shoeboxes, desks drawers, and photo albums and create a romantic slideshow of the years you've spent together. Start from the moment you both met and go through the years highlighting all your most memorable events. Add "your song", then plan a special candlelight evening and watch it together.
24. Email greetings can be used to surprise, create fun, show affection or entice your love. Why not send one right now!
25. Plan ahead; mark all the special upcoming days on your calendar.
26. The slightest change in your normal routine can spark romance. Try using candles for mood lighting. They come in all shapes, sizes and smells. Aromatherapy candles are great for setting a mood and pheromone candles act as an aphrodisiac.
27. Plan a date night; dinner and a visit to the planetarium.
28. Write down your romantic fantasies and then pick a night to share them with each other.
29. Make a large poster or banner which reads "Happy Birthday" for your loves birthday.
30. Tonight, eat dinner by candlelight.
31. Purchase some new lingerie.
32. Have a romance novel created just for your love, staring you.
33. Next time your love goes on a trip, send flowers or a small gift to the destination. Even though you are miles away, your love will be thinking of you.
34. Have a personalized drawing made of you and your love doing something fun or romantic together.
35. Make wishes together by tossing coins in fountains every chance you get.
36. Hide a love note in your love’s pants or coat pocket.
37. Schedule a day next month for a special date together. Write it on the calendar so the excitement will build all month. This is the most important appointment of the month, don’t cancel it.
38. Get tickets to a special event your love is interested in: concert, art show, sports event, etc. Keep it a secret until that day. Enjoy a day with your love doing something they love.
39. Be extra nice when your love has had a bad day.
40. Cut small heart shapes from colored paper and write small love messages on them. Take your hearts to a party store and ask the clerk to put one in each balloon before it’s inflated. Give the balloon bouquet to your love and tell them as each balloon falls they should pop it to find another surprise inside.
41. Buy a box of Lucky Charms and remove all the marshmallows except the heart shaped ones. Put the cereal back in the box and you can even add a love note if you wish.
42. Go to the mall and split $20 between you and your love. Split up and find surprises for a romantic or seductive evening together. Keep your finding a surprise until that evening.
43. Make a scrapbook that’s filled with souvenirs such as concert tickets, a napkin from a place you and your love ate, matchbook from the cocktail lounge you enjoyed drinks at together, movie ticket stub, photos and so on. Work on it together or give it as a gift.
44. Cut different sized hearts from colored paper. Write love messages on them such as "I love your smile", and "You make me laugh." Hide the hearts throughout the house for your love to find.
45. Make some lemonade and spend a warm sunny day being lazy together in a hammock.
46. Design and work on a romantic outside sitting area together.
47. Take a day trip to a winery. Take the tour; buy a bottle of wine share it while sitting on a blanket in the grass.
48. Buy two disposable cameras and take pictures of each other being silly, fun loving and sensual. Have the film developed in an hour. Check out your photos together over dessert, ice tea or a glass of wine.
49. Rent a funny movie. Just have a good time laughing with each other.
50. Create a romantic bedroom. Spare no expense and splurge on a new romantic looking style bed and soft, fluffy pillows. Cover it with sheets and spread that ooze romance. Look around the room; maybe some new curtains, throw rugs or lamps could enhance the sensuality of the room.
51. Warm your loves bath towel in the dryer while they are in the shower.
52. Take a candlelit shower together.
53. Stick a note on the remote control, "Come turn me on!"
54. Go to the movie theater just to make out. Get there early so you can sit in the back row.
55. Grab a bottle of wine, sit together at the computer and shop for fun romantic products.
56. Decorate an area with a beach or Hawaiian theme. Have coconuts, lounge chairs, beach towels and maybe even sand. Serve tropical foods.
57. Spray paint a heart in the grass for your love to see.
58. Buy a book about stars and star gaze together.
59. Buy a smoothie maker and make Pina Coladas and daiquiris.
60. Drive to a nearby town, park the car and walk hand and hand visiting the shops, restaurants and/or nightlife.
61. Create a moonlit picnic complete with picnic basket and blanket.
62. Pick a spot in your yard and plant her/your favorite flowers. When they bloom you’ll have fresh cut flowers to enjoy or give.
63. Send your love and invitation for a midnight rendezvous. Meet on a hot summer night with a bottle of wine and a blanket.
